Instead of cakap "Kalau ade jodoh, ade lah" mungkin kita boleh tukar kepada "Kita kena ada jodoh ni so lets work this out together!"
I dont think you can ever forget anyone in your past no matter how hard you try. Should stop trying to forget anything and start accepting.
Friends are still human. Sometimes they failed to make time for you. Please understand that they too, have other commitments and priorities.