Holding onto a resentment keeps me attached to both the person and the incident while they continue live and be free.
Be mindful of the distractions that come disguised as people.
Don't sell yourself short by trying to live up to expectations of others. It takes courage to be your true unapologetic self. Embrace that!
Don't worry about your critics, they are just as flawed and imperfect as you are.
Making your self a priority in your own life is never a selfish act. In fact its quite an intelligent one.