Don't let the negative words of others affect u because it's not their opinion that matters in the end.The important thing is what God says!
Your source of delight today is in your relationship with Jesus. It's not in your location, position, relationships, or possessions.
The key to the Christian life is training your physical mind to agree with your spirit mind, which is the mind of Christ.
Being dependent on Jesus means He becomes the source of your life. Your thoughts, actions & attitudes revolve around Him.