Am still wondering how you knew the dead rat is the mother. It could be the Aunt, sister, cousin or even passeby
Then one tout pulled the "Akili ni nywele, hii weave yako ni mwakenya"... Makosa!
She was like; "Mwanamme ni kiatu, wharathoose. Hata kiatu huwezi jinunulia utaniweza mimi"
Don't compare your lifestyle with your friend's even if you earn the same amount of cash. We all have different needs and beneficiaries