Please hug and kiss your kids. Show them the beauty in showing and receiving affection. Teach them to be vocal about their feelings.
It's never the men that spend crap loads of money (on women) that come here and complain about broke women, yazi.
It's always the men who spend 20 mins in heavy discussions at Tops and then walk out with a bottle of Skky Vodka and Hunters Dry for igals.
You buy a car and black people want to know how much your deposit was, what your interest rate is and why you bought a car before a house.