Give, give, give and you open the doors to receive, receive, receive.
Every time your mind revisits a negative situation in your past you keep them in your vibration. Every time you talk about the negative things that have happened in your life, you reinforce its power. Let go of all the things you don’t want to experience again. Don’t think about them! Don’t talk about them! If others ask you how you are doing - don’t revisit and tell them of all the bad things happening in your life. Whatever you focus on, you energize. Put your focus and energy only on what you want to CREATE and experience in your future.