@MotherRose1 To love someone how Jesus love we need to serve them not to be serve. We need to be gentle, forgiving and patient.
If we are free of anger and hatred in our heart we will experience joy in our life and we will find ourselves being right with people.
Don't be a greedy person. Trust in the Lord and He will prosper you. It's about having a heart of humility not a heart of greed.