Sis, two things a man of God is going to do: Put you second to God, and help you to put God first.
If folks praised God the way they praise Beyoncé, most women in America would be saved, sanctified and filled with the Holy Ghost.
At your absolute best, you still wont be good enough for the wrong person. At your worst, you'll still be worth it to the right person.
A man being led by the Spirit will love your soul. A man being led by his flesh can only please you on the surface. You'll still have voids.