Always leave things better than you found them.....especially people.
If we feel responsible for other people’s feelings, we can no longer make decisions based on what is right; we will make decisions based on how others feel about our choices. If we are always trying to keep everyone happy, then we cannot make the choices required to live correctly and freely. Link
Character trumps ability. With good character u can up your ability. With poor character u will render your ability useless.