I am ok with 'out of wedlock' but I am not ok with having kids when you can't support them. Legally or not.
Complete yr life goals first before kahwin. Because when u are married it is no longer ONLY just u. U made a vow to share it w someone else.
I would like to yell leave me the fuck alone but that would be too dramatic.
Who gives a crap if the children is out of wedlock. Most importantly you have the means to raise the child -money and time.