I don't think this press conference could be more condescending, blame-shifting, or tone deaf. #Ferguson
Orlando is my hometown. And while I'm encouraged by the support I'm seeing from my LGBT friends and progressive ally friends, the silence from a lot of my conservative friends is deafening. Especially from the same people who immediately changed their profile picture to support Paris or Brussels during a tragedy. Of course we should stand in solidarity with these cities, but Orlando happened on our own soil. In our own country. So many loved ones were lost. People in Orlando lost children, spouses, friends, parents . . . Their grief is unimaginable. If you showed your support for other cities but remain silent because the US victims were LGBT, you need to have a serious Come To Jesus meeting with yourself. And I don't mean that metaphorically. Like, you need to come to Jesus. On your knees. And ask that His love would change your heart so that your compassion and love can extend to all of His people. Not just the ones you deem safe of worthy. Because that's not how Christianity works.
Reminder: this was not a trial. It was a denial of trial. If there were conflicting witness accounts a trial would flesh that out. #ferguson
Happy Mother's Day to those of you navigating relationships with toxic mothers. To those who have had to erect boundaries that leave you ambivalent or alone today. To those who walk down the card aisle for this day and look for something humorous because the emotional cards feel phony and sad given the reality of your own family. Happy Mother's Day to the foster mamas in the sticky, tricky place of not knowing if the child you are mothering today will be the child you are mothering this time next year. Happy Mother's Day to the hopeful mamas who dread this day almost as much as each monthly confirmation that pregnancy eluded them once again. To those who skipped church this morning because the public recognition of that which you are longing for is too painful to bear. To the women who feel confusion, anger, pain, and fear about why motherhood comes so easily to some . . . even to those who don't want it, when it has been your life dream. Happy Mother's Day to the mama's whose children are being raised by others, who feel the ache of that decision (or those circumstances) more keenly on this day. Happy Mother's Day to the moms whose children are fighting battles with addiction or mental illness. Who say prayers for protection and safety each night for the sweet children whose adulthood looks nothing like what they would have planned. Happy Mother's Day to the women who have lost mothers, and would give anything for one more day. Happy Mother's Day to the mamas who have lost babies, who never got to see the dreams they had for their children fulfilled. Whose empty arms ache every day, but especially today. Happy Mother's Day to the aunts, friends, grandmas, teachers, and caregivers who mother the children in their own family and community each and every day.