A category mistake to think that being nice or having good motives, is a defence against political responsibility or consequences.
One of the really sad things about the aftermath is all the "You can't say that will happen because of how I voted, I'm a good person!"
Hannah Arendt warned once about thinking that politics was a way of reassuring yourself that you are personally good.
You know who thinks all men are rapists? People who suggest that it's normal to 'take advantage' of a drunk girl at a club.
Feminists refuse to accept 'boys will be boys', or 'well she should know better than to lead a guy on' or 'he couldn't stop himself'