You can't crush the caterpillars and then complain there are no butterflies.
Our best decisions are oftentimes what we choose not to get involved in. In other words: skip the drama, darling. Your time's too precious.
Don't make promises when you're happy; don't make decisions when you're angry.
Growing up is knowing that rather than having many pairs of cute shoes, you'd prefer one pair that lasts.
Allow yourself multidimensionality. You are not one emotion, one trait, one story. You are a million experiences and a million pieces.