Things that aren't mutually exclusive: being kind, maintaining firm boundaries. You can't care for the world without caring for yourself.
Someone asked me today if I'm ready for Christmas. They looked taken aback when I told them I'm not even ready to wake up tomorrow morning.
Don't you just want to take that moon, reflect it in a darkly flowing, rocky stream and capture the whole scene on the side of a panel van?
Horror movie set in a kitchen: a series of shots of people tearing cling wrap off a roll and someone screaming, "Don't let it touch itself!"