Things that aren't mutually exclusive: being kind, maintaining firm boundaries. You can't care for the world without caring for yourself.
Someone asked me today if I'm ready for Christmas. They looked taken aback when I told them I'm not even ready to wake up tomorrow morning.
Horror movie set in a kitchen: a series of shots of people tearing cling wrap off a roll and someone screaming, "Don't let it touch itself!"
If La Soiree is coming to your fair city, do take the chance to see it. Very entertaining and impressive. And hot bodies.