Sitting back and observing. Hasn't failed me yet.
"Titles don't mean shit if the story don't match it."
At some point in your life, you have to realize what you doing isn't working. Take a stand, take charge, and get your life together.
Closed mouths don't get fed!
If you want to be treated like a woman/queen, present yourself accordingly. And stay that way. Don't change it up.