If you love them you'll correct them, but not before you cover them. Love covers without condoning... & corrects without condemning.
Some of the ppl you inspire or bless the most will never say thank you. So don't base the effectiveness of your influence on gratefulness.
An innocent man was brutally murdered in front of his children. If you can sleep easy or blame it on random occurrence you lack in humanity.
If you don't learn how to say No in life you'll end up either burned out, burdened, broke, or bitter. No is a necessary part of peace.