Nervous around the person you like? Sue them. They'll be forced to see you in court, well dressed & in control. Let the law be your wingman.
Flipped over my therapist's writing pad and it was just a New York Times crossword with "shut up" written in every blank.
imagine hating yourself so much you protest the personal lives of others that affect you in no way
One time a college girl failed to pose with her hand on her hip in a photo and actually lost her scholarship. I wouldn't risk it.